Noticing that we had a new mail carrier, I
opened the garage door for the large package
she carried. We chatted. Then I offered her
some small snacks. She had not had lunch
and was most appreciative. A hug followed.
No time to escape her explanation that
she is a hugger through her masked face.
I did not flinch but hugged her back.
Pandemic or no pandemic. How does one
physical distance a hug? Virtually?
Later on a private walk through an
empty elementary school lot, we
reflected on the tape wrapped securely on
the playground’s equipment. Almost imagined
the shouts of children. On the ground embedded
in sand were brightly colored stones painted
by little fingers. What messages of joy and
happiness they contained. I shared their joys!
Sat on the buddy bench all alone and took
in the scene before me with clouds threatening
to open in rain at any moment. No sooner
back home when my husband announced the
grocery delivery. He said the name Heike and
asked me to come to the garage.
What a wonderful surprise and opportunity
to once again converse in German with a
native speaker from Mainz. She looked too young
through a masked face to have grandchildren. I
must have appeared younger to her when she
inquired when I was teaching now.
After an almost fifty year career of teaching
German, I had hung up that hat about
four years ago. She initially thought I was
a native German. For all practical purposes,
I might as well be. My name means “the
German girl” after all. She sang with a
Bach group in Germany after she learned
we had sung in Prague with the Berkshire
Choral International and with the
Syracuse Chorale. New hats now: music,
writing, blogging and reading. Shine
your brightest light: life is good.
Beautiful post! The smallest act of kindness can have the largest impact ❤️ Love the enjoyment of the simple joys of life during this uneasy time. Thanks for sharing your post!
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Emily, many thanks for the wonderful comment. From your heart to mine. The smallest act of kindness does indeed have the greatest impact. Spoken like a true healthcare professional. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade! Enjoy the weekend! oxox
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Have a virtual hug for your cheerfully expressed resistance to the oppressing coronavirus, Mary Ann!
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Peter, your comment made my day! I accept the virtual hug and send one back. It all happened so quickly, I threw caution to the wind. History will have stories to tell of the oppressive shutdowns too. Our numbers are far fewer than NYC and NJ too. We could safely open again, if you ask me! But I wasn’t asked. May you find joy and some of life unexpected pleasures this weekend! Hope you stay healthy and safe. “”__”” ox
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Thank you and you too, Mary Ann!
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Peter, we’re enjoying the daily show at our end of the pond with the birds, squirrels and rabbits this morning. “”__””
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My pleasure, Peter. Einen angenehmen Sonntag!
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Life is good! ❤ Got to keep shining! xoxoxo
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Bette, thank you for your timely comment. Life is good and keep shining your beacon of light for all of us. Be safe and stay healthy. oxox
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Ditto, Mary Ann! Have a lovely weekend! Sunshine and near 50 degrees here today… Feeling blessed. ❤
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Bette, the neighborhood is alive with basketballs hitting driveways, hammers repairing or building, lawn mowers. Mid 50s. Definitely can tell people crave being outdoors once again. Hugs and peace. oxox
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What an uplifting post! A hug from a mail carrier and instant bonding with the grocery delivery person are outstanding events, especially now.
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Anne, thank you for your kind comment. Life’s little pleasures are simply the best! Now, especially now, is when we need some uplifting posts. Sending you a virtual hug. Blessings, lovely lady. oxox
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Here’s a hug (()) right back.
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These virtual hugs have to suffice for the time being. Soon the hot, humid weather will help kill the virus. Cool hug. (( )) Haha, love your sense of humor. oxox
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You are cool. Wish you could hear my grandsons say cool. It’s full of admiration and appreciation.
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Anne, I wish I could hear your grandsons exclaim with admiration and appreciation their “cools” – Right back at you! Time to escape the house and be outdoors! Cool!!! (( ))
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I was weeding after walking this morning. Temp was about 49 degrees. That sure beats summer heat.
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Great for you: walking and then weeding. Is NC open for business now? (( ))
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NC has extended the lockdown until May 8, I believe. Yesterday it was announced that schools would not reopen until Fall. (())
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Anne, our shutdown was continued through May 15. Governor still unsure about schools in the rest of the state. This extended shutdown will certainly change the fabric of public education this year. oxox
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Change, yes. Will it be both good and bad?
oxox
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Anne, as with everything in life, there is both good and bad. A bumpy road called life. oxox
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C’est la vie! Man muß das Leben eben nehmen, wie das Leben eben ist! That’s life! oxox
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Another thoughtful post, Mary Ann. I liked how you captured the feeling of a different world in your words. All of us long for kindness and compassion in these times as we do what we need to get on with our lives. Shutting down happened so fast and I think many of us are still shocked and trying to cope with it. It is lovely to hear in your town people are staying home and at the same time, looking out for each other. Good to hear you still are able to get groceries. Here in Australia everything is pretty much shut except for grocery stores. Take care and stay safe.
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Mabel, Thank you for your wonderful comment. The world is so different now. The weather is pleasant today and beckons us outdoors. If we have to live this way much longer, I am certain we will be exercising civil disobedience. In Upstate NY, our numbers are so low, that it makes no sense not to be open. Especially returning to church services. We are advised to wear masks now too. So is Australia going into winter weather? Are you able to walk outdoors. Even some of our parks are closed. We have to be creative in finding different places to walk and to be in nature. Enough is enough. Time to return to our normal, daily lives. Open economies once more. Thank you for the well wishes. Enjoy the weekend and be safe and stay healthy. And this too shall pass. “”__””
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The world is definitely very different, and hopefully it can learn from this and live differently moving forward. That’s great in Upstate NY the infections are low, and hope it stays that way – and more nice weather for you too.
We are heading into winter weather in Australia, which isn’t ideal and I feel it best we stay closed for a while longer. We are only able to go out for essentials such as groceries or for exercising (such as a short walk and practising social distancing while at it). It doesn’t really bother me since I work out at home for exercise and like spending time indoors. Hope this week will be a good one for you, Mary. Take care.
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Mabel, thank you for the comment. May your remain in good health and safe as you enter the winter period. And this too shall pass. We shall get over this virus and resume our lives. Now a virtual hug: (( ))
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What a heart-warming post! Sending you some hugs on the clouds of hope Mary Ann. 🙂
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Balroop, I just caught the clouds of hope with hugs you sent. We will get over this soon. Thank you for such a kind comment to the post. I’ll send you a virtual hug now as well. (( )) oxox
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Thanks 🤗❤️
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My pleasure. Be safe and stay healthy. oxox
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My pleasure. Have an enjoyable Sunday and week ahead. “”__””
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How wonderful to be caught unawares by a hug! Blessings to you, Mary Ann! xoxo
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Clare, thank you for your insightful comment. Caught unawares is the most memorable in life, right? Hugs and blessings. Hope all is well. oxox
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Thank you, Mary Ann – yes, all is well xoxo
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Clare, good to hear all is well at your end of the pond. Spring is attempting an appearance today. Be well and safe. oxox A virtual hug: (( ))
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xoxo
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Virtual hug from my end of the pond: (( )) oxox
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xoxo
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Thank you for stopping by my blog. I am enjoying reading through yours. It is difficult to not hug when you are a hugger. Just one of many challenges we are facing. I too have enjoyed seeing rocks painted and left behind on the trails near my home. It is such a lovely and uplifting gesture. Health and happiness to you. 🤗
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Michele, thank your for your great comment amidst the pandemic. Hope you come back each week to see the new posting. The trails near your home with painted rocks left behind certainly affirm that life is wonderful. So here is a virtual hug: (( ))
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